3/18/2024 0 Comments Enneagram type 2 song![]() ![]() This song exemplifies Nine’s laid-back diplomacy. ![]() Like Sevens, they’d rather avoid the drama and keep the peace. The song: Bob Marley, Don’t worry about a thingĭon’t ask a Nine to assert themselves or acknowledge their hurt feelings. If they’re your friend, you can probably also forget about seeing their vulnerable side – Eights don’t really do vulnerability.īut when they’re healthy, they are truly amazing friends who use their power to support others. Wait – did someone say fears? Type Eight – the Challengerĭon’t even think about trying to control the Challenger. These people are just terrified of pain, and will escape into distraction and forward planning at any opportunity. Try to get a Seven to deal with a personal problem or relationship challenge, and they will likely make you feel like a bore or a pedant. Ridiculously (and sometimes unreasonably) optimistic, this song is characteristic of Seven’s magpie worldview. It gets less scary once they quieten that mind. ‘What happens if they abandon me?’ ‘What will I do then?’. Lovely for the friends not so good for the Six, who is often in the grips of a personal hell of confusion that comes from not having any internal sense of guidance. ![]() Other people – or institutions, or faith – are their source of security. The dependable dogs of the Enneagram, type Sixes are loyal because their sense of self depends on it. ‘Lean on me, when you’re not strong… It won’t be long, before I’m gonna need somebody to lean on.’ ![]() Why? Because they’ve been preparing for it for years.įives are brilliantly insightful, and at times intellectually superior, introverts. Fives are the people you want around you when mass destruction is imminent. This song exemplifies Five’s intellectual prowess, and utter absorption into the world of their thoughts. My Five friend actually sent me the song when I requested her thoughts regarding President Trump’s election. It’s more the mood of this song, than the lyrics, that makes me think of Fives. The Song – Tears for Fears, (it’s a very very) Mad World My alternative anthem for Four is James Morrison’s Undiscovered. Just like in the song, for Fours the magic is always slightly out of reach. They desire self identity and uniqueness, completely oblivious to the fact that they’re already unique (because they’re alive.) It’s not their fault Nobody understands them.įeeling unseen and unrecognised contributes to type Four’s moody, melancholic air. We’re not broken just bent, and we can learn to love againįours can be a little…melodramatic. It’s in the stars, it’s been written in the scars on our hearts The song: P!nk – Just Give Me A Reason ft. Why? To fill up the gaping hole left by their failure to recognise their own inherent worth.Īt some point, Threes realise that they aren’t their various successes, and care more about discovering their core values instead. Type Threes want (and usually get) the external trappings of success more than the other types. This song, an ode to becoming filthy rich, is very Three-ish. Twos need encouraging to do what the hell they want more, and with understanding that people will still love them. If they’re your friend, just avoid overlooking their unexpressed needs. No other type is quite as selfless, nor as capable of providing unconditional love. This song perfectly captures the Giver’s devotion, and their highly seductive, single-pointed focus on the object of their affections. The song: James Arthur, Say you Won’t Let Go That song is a One freeing herself from the chains of her own unhealthily exacting standards.ĭo either of these songs resonate with you? And that woman has a certain way of arranging the dishes in the dishwasher, I can tell you. My ex One formed his whole business around his Oneness- accuracy, attention to detail and integrity. Morally upstanding Ones are pretty into perfection and keeping standards high. The song: Carly Simon’s Nobody Does It Better And it doesn’t account for the flavours of the main types that the two subtype provide (you’d need even more songs for that).īut have I let any of that stop me? Course I haven’t. True, introducing people to their Enneagram type through songs is a bit simplistic. Why would you care?Īnyway, recently I was listening to a song that was so type Two, it got me thinking: what if there was a song that encapsulates each Enneagram type? Well, it turns out that there is. If we did happen to get into a conversation about it, I’d excitedly waffle something about how learning the Enneagram has helped me in ‘observing ego’, and ‘becoming aware of self sabotaging strategies, performed unconsciously’.īut you wouldn’t care. Which is lucky, because that would suck – for them and me. I don’t feel compelled to sell the Enneagram to my mates and family. Personal growth on steroids, the Enneagram feels like the world’s best kept secret in self-awareness. ![]()
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